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Old 15th December 2009
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Default Anal Reconstruction for sex?

Hey guys, Ive always wondered about this issue.
I've never experienced anal sex, and after I had my total colectomy, my surgeon highly reccomended removing my anal canal and since that operation my 'behind' has just closed up. I can still feel vestigal muscle control and all that but I've always been wondering if I could ever have anal sex again?
How would I propose this to my surgeon - 'hey doc I want to have anal sex please open my ass up!'. Or what?
I remember my surgeon telling me its a good thing that my anal canal closes because if it was open, my internal organs like my liver, etc would be exposed to the outside world. But then I read stories of ostomates who didn't have their anal canal removed and they seem to experience no problems.
So yeah, if anyone has had an experience or knows how I should go about this please advise me!
I was thinking that they would do the same operation that they do on male-to-female transsexuals when they create their artifical vagina. Like that, they would recreate an opening in my buttocks where my anus used to be, and perhaps fashion it so that it doesnt close up again or something.
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